"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think my **** is broken

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I've been doing everything I can to try and fix this. All of a sudden I just can't get hard anymore. My girl and I try to have sex almost every night...and i just cant do it. Basically the only time I get hard enough to penetrate is right before I bust...so theres almost no point in me penetrating her. Recently I've almost completely stopped masturbating, I've upped my exercise, and am trying to eat healthier. I thought this would get better over time but in reality the problem has only gotten worse over the past week and a half or so. Sorry if this post is too graphic for some but this problem is literally eating me alive.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how old are you? this has recently began to happen to me, but im approaching 30 and from what i hear, it's just a side effect of age! ha...

but things i find that help are exercise, and... the exact thing you're avoiding... masturbation...

i don't really have time in my brain to think about sex, or get turned on from looking at a clothed woman or anything... i've seen it all.. there's no rainbow under there... and it's hardly a pot of honey...

so... i try to have sex or masterbate 2-3 times a day... particularly in the morning when my thing doesn't like to finish (meaning i can get it up fine, but never get it out).... i watch really filthy porno (stuff i would never do) and it helps me... seriously... and then when a woman comes over for a day... im able to have sex with them 2-3 times then...

i just wish it was a little while ago when i could bust, and go against right after without stopping.... i seem to have lost that ability and it was a really impressive ability.... i miss it =(
 
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