"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think my **** is broken

vlf445

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I've been doing everything I can to try and fix this. All of a sudden I just can't get hard anymore. My girl and I try to have sex almost every night...and i just cant do it. Basically the only time I get hard enough to penetrate is right before I bust...so theres almost no point in me penetrating her. Recently I've almost completely stopped masturbating, I've upped my exercise, and am trying to eat healthier. I thought this would get better over time but in reality the problem has only gotten worse over the past week and a half or so. Sorry if this post is too graphic for some but this problem is literally eating me alive.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how old are you? this has recently began to happen to me, but im approaching 30 and from what i hear, it's just a side effect of age! ha...

but things i find that help are exercise, and... the exact thing you're avoiding... masturbation...

i don't really have time in my brain to think about sex, or get turned on from looking at a clothed woman or anything... i've seen it all.. there's no rainbow under there... and it's hardly a pot of honey...

so... i try to have sex or masterbate 2-3 times a day... particularly in the morning when my thing doesn't like to finish (meaning i can get it up fine, but never get it out).... i watch really filthy porno (stuff i would never do) and it helps me... seriously... and then when a woman comes over for a day... im able to have sex with them 2-3 times then...

i just wish it was a little while ago when i could bust, and go against right after without stopping.... i seem to have lost that ability and it was a really impressive ability.... i miss it =(
 
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