I Think I'm too ****y or too mean sometimes!

[MaxPayne]

Hey well I have been realizing a pattern in here that I am too ****y or too mean when talking to WOMEN, I use too much C&F! ....ALOT!....and I have come to realize its working against me.

See I was the dork in highschool, I have to EVOLVE a lil and start dressing better and listening to alot of the PUA stuff since I was 15. Am 18 now and just made out with 4 women, and got 2 into bed and they LMRD me. But I had alot of fear inside of me and alot of inner game issues to deal with ON MY OWN!. I think i have been wounded heavily and I have just created this wall of C&F!

Anyway look i don't like to ramble on like a *****, but guys and PUA's (well at least experienced ones) I am too tired of this playing catch string like a cat!

I would like to get some suggestions in here, anything u folks see appropriate and possibly from EXPERIENCE .

Thanks

 

[Moon-Wolf]

Well it seems to me that you know exactly what you have to improve, read about the subject that will adress those topics and figure out a game plan so that you can improve in field.

A little edit here, if you went from extreme to another, thats normal its what happens when you try to improve. It will balance itself out on its own.

 

[horaholic]

I have the same problem. I went from being too nice, to the other extreme. When you are talking to a girl, you have to consciously tell yourself not to overdo it. Be playful, not insulting.