"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I Think I'm too ****y or too mean sometimes!

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MaxPayne

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Hey well I have been realizing a pattern in here that I am too ****y or too mean when talking to WOMEN, I use too much C&F! ....ALOT!....and I have come to realize its working against me.

See I was the dork in highschool, I have to EVOLVE a lil and start dressing better and listening to alot of the PUA stuff since I was 15. Am 18 now and just made out with 4 women, and got 2 into bed and they LMRD me. But I had alot of fear inside of me and alot of inner game issues to deal with ON MY OWN!. I think i have been wounded heavily and I have just created this wall of C&F!

Anyway look i don't like to ramble on like a *****, but guys and PUA's (well at least experienced ones) I am too tired of this playing catch string like a cat!

I would like to get some suggestions in here, anything u folks see appropriate and possibly from EXPERIENCE .

Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Moon-Wolf

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Well it seems to me that you know exactly what you have to improve, read about the subject that will adress those topics and figure out a game plan so that you can improve in field.

A little edit here, if you went from extreme to another, thats normal its what happens when you try to improve. It will balance itself out on its own.
 
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I have the same problem. I went from being too nice, to the other extreme. When you are talking to a girl, you have to consciously tell yourself not to overdo it. Be playful, not insulting.
 
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