"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I Think I'm too ****y or too mean sometimes!

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MaxPayne

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Hey well I have been realizing a pattern in here that I am too ****y or too mean when talking to WOMEN, I use too much C&F! ....ALOT!....and I have come to realize its working against me.

See I was the dork in highschool, I have to EVOLVE a lil and start dressing better and listening to alot of the PUA stuff since I was 15. Am 18 now and just made out with 4 women, and got 2 into bed and they LMRD me. But I had alot of fear inside of me and alot of inner game issues to deal with ON MY OWN!. I think i have been wounded heavily and I have just created this wall of C&F!

Anyway look i don't like to ramble on like a *****, but guys and PUA's (well at least experienced ones) I am too tired of this playing catch string like a cat!

I would like to get some suggestions in here, anything u folks see appropriate and possibly from EXPERIENCE .

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Moon-Wolf

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Well it seems to me that you know exactly what you have to improve, read about the subject that will adress those topics and figure out a game plan so that you can improve in field.

A little edit here, if you went from extreme to another, thats normal its what happens when you try to improve. It will balance itself out on its own.
 
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I have the same problem. I went from being too nice, to the other extreme. When you are talking to a girl, you have to consciously tell yourself not to overdo it. Be playful, not insulting.
 
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