"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I Think I'm too ****y or too mean sometimes!

MaxPayne

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Hey well I have been realizing a pattern in here that I am too ****y or too mean when talking to WOMEN, I use too much C&F! ....ALOT!....and I have come to realize its working against me.

See I was the dork in highschool, I have to EVOLVE a lil and start dressing better and listening to alot of the PUA stuff since I was 15. Am 18 now and just made out with 4 women, and got 2 into bed and they LMRD me. But I had alot of fear inside of me and alot of inner game issues to deal with ON MY OWN!. I think i have been wounded heavily and I have just created this wall of C&F!

Anyway look i don't like to ramble on like a *****, but guys and PUA's (well at least experienced ones) I am too tired of this playing catch string like a cat!

I would like to get some suggestions in here, anything u folks see appropriate and possibly from EXPERIENCE .

Thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Moon-Wolf

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Well it seems to me that you know exactly what you have to improve, read about the subject that will adress those topics and figure out a game plan so that you can improve in field.

A little edit here, if you went from extreme to another, thats normal its what happens when you try to improve. It will balance itself out on its own.
 

horaholic

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I have the same problem. I went from being too nice, to the other extreme. When you are talking to a girl, you have to consciously tell yourself not to overdo it. Be playful, not insulting.
 
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