"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think im setting myself up for a trainwreck

SikWitIt

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-Alright so i started my new job like 7 months ago, and my supervisor was a chick maybe about a 6 1/2 not bad lookin but then i got moved up and changed supervisors.

So now this other chick i know told my old supervisor i thought she was hott so my supervisor told her to ask for my number and i gave it to her.

But man im thinkin this is a bad idea she's 25 im 20 and im also talkin to this other chick that is 25 and then this other one that is 19 they all have my number and i have thers.

But dammit they all work at the same place im so screwd,that one saying dont **** wher you eat is true damit im so stupid this already happen one time before.

And i got in trouble at my old job because ther were 2 chicks fighting over me and saying bad things about eachother pretty soon it got bad and

One girl told the managment and they brought all 3 of us in for a talk of course i denied everything but dam.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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zolo

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as the old saying goes, don't dip you pen in the company ink
 

Tomatoes

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oh my god? Why did you do that?

You got 3 girls at work after you? Surely you would have learnt at your last job that work rumours travel faster than bird flu. I would cut loose on 2 and go for one. Or cut your losses completely and keep your job safe. Depends how much you like your job to be fair...
 

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I'm not sure what your question is...

Realize that *everything* you say to a woman will be told to every other women at a workplace eventually.

Don't date women you work with.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cave dweller

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meat

Hey Dude,

You broke rule #34 ...............

"Don't put your meat where you get your bread."

cave dweller
 

SikWitIt

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Yea i know im a retard, But ive decided through process of elimination im going to get rid of 1 of them and put her on the back burner for now.

I can handle 2 for now, will see what happens one is hotter then the other but,the one that isn't so hot is more intresting to talk too younger and has her stuff together.

See cause i was talking to my supervisor i mean hehe this chick and she's already plannin ahead man saying she wants to cook for me etc... im like whoa hold i just started talkin to you not in so many words but you know :p

I couldnt help it i mean i was told if you see a hott girl and you like her then go after her.
 
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