"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think im setting myself up for a trainwreck

SikWitIt

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-Alright so i started my new job like 7 months ago, and my supervisor was a chick maybe about a 6 1/2 not bad lookin but then i got moved up and changed supervisors.

So now this other chick i know told my old supervisor i thought she was hott so my supervisor told her to ask for my number and i gave it to her.

But man im thinkin this is a bad idea she's 25 im 20 and im also talkin to this other chick that is 25 and then this other one that is 19 they all have my number and i have thers.

But dammit they all work at the same place im so screwd,that one saying dont **** wher you eat is true damit im so stupid this already happen one time before.

And i got in trouble at my old job because ther were 2 chicks fighting over me and saying bad things about eachother pretty soon it got bad and

One girl told the managment and they brought all 3 of us in for a talk of course i denied everything but dam.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zolo

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as the old saying goes, don't dip you pen in the company ink
 

Tomatoes

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oh my god? Why did you do that?

You got 3 girls at work after you? Surely you would have learnt at your last job that work rumours travel faster than bird flu. I would cut loose on 2 and go for one. Or cut your losses completely and keep your job safe. Depends how much you like your job to be fair...
 

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I'm not sure what your question is...

Realize that *everything* you say to a woman will be told to every other women at a workplace eventually.

Don't date women you work with.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cave dweller

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meat

Hey Dude,

You broke rule #34 ...............

"Don't put your meat where you get your bread."

cave dweller
 

SikWitIt

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Yea i know im a retard, But ive decided through process of elimination im going to get rid of 1 of them and put her on the back burner for now.

I can handle 2 for now, will see what happens one is hotter then the other but,the one that isn't so hot is more intresting to talk too younger and has her stuff together.

See cause i was talking to my supervisor i mean hehe this chick and she's already plannin ahead man saying she wants to cook for me etc... im like whoa hold i just started talkin to you not in so many words but you know :p

I couldnt help it i mean i was told if you see a hott girl and you like her then go after her.
 
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