The past few weeks something strange has been happening to me. Ive lost interest in most girls except one. Ive been in a LTR for about 4 years and ive almost totally lost interest in sex. The other thing is ive stopped smoking - i wanna quit drinking as much I go to the gym and enjoy boxing / thai boxing. When im out i still talk to girls but not really that interested if they like me or not. The thing is im only 21 and I used to smoke / drink as much as i could / smoke weed etc. I have no idea how this has happened to me.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I think im going mental
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
one of your braincells died. I feel for you guy. GOD haw are you ever gona go through life with out somoking, drinking, and back-stabing-psycho-whooores. And on top of that, your boxing, and getting healthy. OHHHHH man. You'r in deep trouble...........
sometimes, this thing happends; Im puirty sure its called GROWING UP..........
sometimes, this thing happends; Im puirty sure its called GROWING UP..........
Skullcrusher
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Have you ever sucked a guy off yet? Start right here, boy.
Growing up at 21? The thing is im totally losing my sex drive too its just really weird. Skullcrusher did u suck alot of ****s when you hit 21? it just seems all this **** is happening at once the thing is i feel like im not the same person now thats what is really worrying me you know what i mean?
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Well, I would suspect that you might be getting depressed.....except for the fact that you are out doing really Healthy, productive/fun things and not wasting your time drinking and smoking.
You might be ready to move onto the next phase of your life. Go with it. There's a lot more to life then partying.
You are GROWING UP......don't worry about it
The Bad Ass Canadian
You might be ready to move onto the next phase of your life. Go with it. There's a lot more to life then partying.
You are GROWING UP......don't worry about it
The Bad Ass Canadian
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Heh
well, I'm 26 and looking back at who I was 10 yrs ago.... I don't even recognize myself. You will change as you grow.... a fact of life.