The past few weeks something strange has been happening to me. Ive lost interest in most girls except one. Ive been in a LTR for about 4 years and ive almost totally lost interest in sex. The other thing is ive stopped smoking - i wanna quit drinking as much I go to the gym and enjoy boxing / thai boxing. When im out i still talk to girls but not really that interested if they like me or not. The thing is im only 21 and I used to smoke / drink as much as i could / smoke weed etc. I have no idea how this has happened to me.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I think im going mental
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
one of your braincells died. I feel for you guy. GOD haw are you ever gona go through life with out somoking, drinking, and back-stabing-psycho-whooores. And on top of that, your boxing, and getting healthy. OHHHHH man. You'r in deep trouble...........
sometimes, this thing happends; Im puirty sure its called GROWING UP..........
sometimes, this thing happends; Im puirty sure its called GROWING UP..........
Skullcrusher
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Have you ever sucked a guy off yet? Start right here, boy.
Growing up at 21? The thing is im totally losing my sex drive too its just really weird. Skullcrusher did u suck alot of ****s when you hit 21? it just seems all this **** is happening at once the thing is i feel like im not the same person now thats what is really worrying me you know what i mean?
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Well, I would suspect that you might be getting depressed.....except for the fact that you are out doing really Healthy, productive/fun things and not wasting your time drinking and smoking.
You might be ready to move onto the next phase of your life. Go with it. There's a lot more to life then partying.
You are GROWING UP......don't worry about it
The Bad Ass Canadian
You might be ready to move onto the next phase of your life. Go with it. There's a lot more to life then partying.
You are GROWING UP......don't worry about it
The Bad Ass Canadian
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Heh
well, I'm 26 and looking back at who I was 10 yrs ago.... I don't even recognize myself. You will change as you grow.... a fact of life.