The past few weeks something strange has been happening to me. Ive lost interest in most girls except one. Ive been in a LTR for about 4 years and ive almost totally lost interest in sex. The other thing is ive stopped smoking - i wanna quit drinking as much I go to the gym and enjoy boxing / thai boxing. When im out i still talk to girls but not really that interested if they like me or not. The thing is im only 21 and I used to smoke / drink as much as i could / smoke weed etc. I have no idea how this has happened to me.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I think im going mental
- Thread starter wildchild
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
one of your braincells died. I feel for you guy. GOD haw are you ever gona go through life with out somoking, drinking, and back-stabing-psycho-whooores. And on top of that, your boxing, and getting healthy. OHHHHH man. You'r in deep trouble...........
sometimes, this thing happends; Im puirty sure its called GROWING UP..........
sometimes, this thing happends; Im puirty sure its called GROWING UP..........
Skullcrusher
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Have you ever sucked a guy off yet? Start right here, boy.
Growing up at 21? The thing is im totally losing my sex drive too its just really weird. Skullcrusher did u suck alot of ****s when you hit 21? it just seems all this **** is happening at once the thing is i feel like im not the same person now thats what is really worrying me you know what i mean?
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Well, I would suspect that you might be getting depressed.....except for the fact that you are out doing really Healthy, productive/fun things and not wasting your time drinking and smoking.
You might be ready to move onto the next phase of your life. Go with it. There's a lot more to life then partying.
You are GROWING UP......don't worry about it
The Bad Ass Canadian
You might be ready to move onto the next phase of your life. Go with it. There's a lot more to life then partying.
You are GROWING UP......don't worry about it
The Bad Ass Canadian
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Heh
well, I'm 26 and looking back at who I was 10 yrs ago.... I don't even recognize myself. You will change as you grow.... a fact of life.