The past few weeks something strange has been happening to me. Ive lost interest in most girls except one. Ive been in a LTR for about 4 years and ive almost totally lost interest in sex. The other thing is ive stopped smoking - i wanna quit drinking as much I go to the gym and enjoy boxing / thai boxing. When im out i still talk to girls but not really that interested if they like me or not. The thing is im only 21 and I used to smoke / drink as much as i could / smoke weed etc. I have no idea how this has happened to me.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I think im going mental
- Thread starter wildchild
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
one of your braincells died. I feel for you guy. GOD haw are you ever gona go through life with out somoking, drinking, and back-stabing-psycho-whooores. And on top of that, your boxing, and getting healthy. OHHHHH man. You'r in deep trouble...........
sometimes, this thing happends; Im puirty sure its called GROWING UP..........
sometimes, this thing happends; Im puirty sure its called GROWING UP..........
Skullcrusher
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Have you ever sucked a guy off yet? Start right here, boy.
Growing up at 21? The thing is im totally losing my sex drive too its just really weird. Skullcrusher did u suck alot of ****s when you hit 21? it just seems all this **** is happening at once the thing is i feel like im not the same person now thats what is really worrying me you know what i mean?
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Well, I would suspect that you might be getting depressed.....except for the fact that you are out doing really Healthy, productive/fun things and not wasting your time drinking and smoking.
You might be ready to move onto the next phase of your life. Go with it. There's a lot more to life then partying.
You are GROWING UP......don't worry about it
The Bad Ass Canadian
You might be ready to move onto the next phase of your life. Go with it. There's a lot more to life then partying.
You are GROWING UP......don't worry about it
The Bad Ass Canadian
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Heh
well, I'm 26 and looking back at who I was 10 yrs ago.... I don't even recognize myself. You will change as you grow.... a fact of life.