"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think I'm becoming friends with too many girls on my Journey.

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Hello everyone!

Occasional lurker, distant student here. A bit ago, I set upon a journey to improve myself in every conditional way in order to be as successful with getting laid as possible. My primary goal is to be able to sleep with any girl I desire. Right now, I'm abroad in college.

Unfortunately, it seems I have gone astray. As I type this, the school year has started. I'm class-buddy friends with a handful of attractive girls from a bunch of my classes, and I sense each of them has varying degrees of attraction to me ( 2 of which really have heart eyes for me ), I just really don't know how to capitalize on it. ( Call me an idiot, I know. I only really got out of my shell in College + still a virgin )

Previously being a nice guy, I managed to snap out of that attitude, and now it seems like I'm just simply the master of building tension and attraction; only to not do anything about it.

I really want to change this. I fear if I take too long, they'll lose interest and move on as will I. I need help figuring out where to take it from here.

( When helping me, it would help to imagine an awkward, overthinking introvert who's fakin' it till he's making it and has faked most things well so far, but doesn't know how to fake it any further. )
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Step one, dont talk down on yourself. Step two, youare a student, focus on that, unless you are rich and can afford to fail. Step three, accept who you are now, news flash, there is no magic wand that you can sleep with all the women you like. I would have it if it was available.


Just pick one women that you find goodchemestry and go for it. She turns you down, its ok, next. Eventually one will like you. Read the mystery method since i think it will work in your situation. GL
 
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How hard is it? "Hey I'm going to (insert place) after class. You should come along".

Or "Hey give me your number, I'm gonna text you later so we can meet up"

Or about a million other things you could say. The bottom line is you are afraid to take action. That's what separates guys who get laid frequently from guys who don't. Guys who get laid take action much more than guys who don't.
 
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Kino and start escalating.

U still a virgin? Maybe that's messing with your head. Rosort to a prostitute at least to get that first time nervousness out of your system.

Do not wait too long to make a move or you WILL be friendzoned.
 
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