ok i smsed this girl to ask her out, 1st date, she declined sincerely i presume its bona fide. however I txted: "u look good in pink & i like it when u tie ur hair back", because i thought it'd make me seem confident and know what i want...which is the true...but does it come off as AFC? did i reveal i liked her too early?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I think i screwed up, opinions
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DogFashionDisco
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Move on bro, you got rejected. There's plenty more fish in the sea.
And after you got rejected, you compliment her? Not a good idea. That just shows that you're desperate.
And after you got rejected, you compliment her? Not a good idea. That just shows that you're desperate.
Few mistakes,would point them out for better methods next time.
-You SMSed her to ask her out.This actually depicts to the girl that you're not willing to talk to her in person or with a voice,whatever the reason.
-After she declined to go out with you,you still made a nice comment about her,which in no way makes you look confident.It actually tells the girl that you're going to be with her no matter how she treats you.
I truely believe that SMS is a very useless form of communication.It gives a person long time to think about what they want to say,which would totally be different from what they would've said impromptu.
Ok,so here's what you can do with this girl.
1.You can try one more time to ask her out,after 4-5 days.Call her this time or do it in person.If she declines,just say,'Too bad....For you'.And next her.
2.Don't make it a big deal that she declined to go out with you,just act as if nothing happened.It would make you look suave lol.And don't give her too much attention.
3.Talk to other girls in front of her,make yourself look like a really big PRIZE.If you do this correctly,you're gonna be charming.Read articles on charisma to know more.If you do this,there's a high chance the girl would go out with you next time you ask.
These are 3 things you can do.If I were you,I'd do the first one so that I don't waste time on just one girl and turn it into a one-itis.However,the 3rd one is pretty good too,it gets you acquainted to a whole lotta new girls which is good.
Cheers!
-You SMSed her to ask her out.This actually depicts to the girl that you're not willing to talk to her in person or with a voice,whatever the reason.
-After she declined to go out with you,you still made a nice comment about her,which in no way makes you look confident.It actually tells the girl that you're going to be with her no matter how she treats you.
I truely believe that SMS is a very useless form of communication.It gives a person long time to think about what they want to say,which would totally be different from what they would've said impromptu.
Ok,so here's what you can do with this girl.
1.You can try one more time to ask her out,after 4-5 days.Call her this time or do it in person.If she declines,just say,'Too bad....For you'.And next her.
2.Don't make it a big deal that she declined to go out with you,just act as if nothing happened.It would make you look suave lol.And don't give her too much attention.
3.Talk to other girls in front of her,make yourself look like a really big PRIZE.If you do this correctly,you're gonna be charming.Read articles on charisma to know more.If you do this,there's a high chance the girl would go out with you next time you ask.
These are 3 things you can do.If I were you,I'd do the first one so that I don't waste time on just one girl and turn it into a one-itis.However,the 3rd one is pretty good too,it gets you acquainted to a whole lotta new girls which is good.
Cheers!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The Real Ice Man
Don Juan
i think you screwed up, too
ask people out in person
ask people out in person