"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think I made the right decision

Cableguy

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Well, as some of you may know I recently converted a 20 yr old HB9 from a friend to a lover. Lately,however, she's been cold and not wanting much at all in terms of intimacy.

Well, tonight she told me that she was doing this because she thought things were going too fast and didn't want anything serious. Her way of preventing feelings for me was to deny me pretty much anything physical. Oh, holding hands and cuddling were of course, acceptable to her. Ha!

I had asked to her to go a Dave Matthews concert with me a week ago and she was stoked to say the least. Well, the concert is tomorrow night and after our convo tonight I told her she wasn't going to be going.

I feel kinda bad, but I'm not footing the bill for some chick to see a concert when the most I'll get out of it is some ****ing hand holding. She actually expected me to still take her after she essentially LJBF'd me. The nerve of some chicks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Doggystyle

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Good on ya lad!

Who the fook is dave matthews by the way, sounds gay!
 

spesmilitis

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If you're not getting some by the 4rd date, NEXT her. Since you were friends, should be more like the 2nd date.
 
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