"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think I made the right decision

Cableguy

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Well, as some of you may know I recently converted a 20 yr old HB9 from a friend to a lover. Lately,however, she's been cold and not wanting much at all in terms of intimacy.

Well, tonight she told me that she was doing this because she thought things were going too fast and didn't want anything serious. Her way of preventing feelings for me was to deny me pretty much anything physical. Oh, holding hands and cuddling were of course, acceptable to her. Ha!

I had asked to her to go a Dave Matthews concert with me a week ago and she was stoked to say the least. Well, the concert is tomorrow night and after our convo tonight I told her she wasn't going to be going.

I feel kinda bad, but I'm not footing the bill for some chick to see a concert when the most I'll get out of it is some ****ing hand holding. She actually expected me to still take her after she essentially LJBF'd me. The nerve of some chicks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Doggystyle

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Good on ya lad!

Who the fook is dave matthews by the way, sounds gay!
 

spesmilitis

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If you're not getting some by the 4rd date, NEXT her. Since you were friends, should be more like the 2nd date.
 
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