"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think I made the right decision

Cableguy

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Well, as some of you may know I recently converted a 20 yr old HB9 from a friend to a lover. Lately,however, she's been cold and not wanting much at all in terms of intimacy.

Well, tonight she told me that she was doing this because she thought things were going too fast and didn't want anything serious. Her way of preventing feelings for me was to deny me pretty much anything physical. Oh, holding hands and cuddling were of course, acceptable to her. Ha!

I had asked to her to go a Dave Matthews concert with me a week ago and she was stoked to say the least. Well, the concert is tomorrow night and after our convo tonight I told her she wasn't going to be going.

I feel kinda bad, but I'm not footing the bill for some chick to see a concert when the most I'll get out of it is some ****ing hand holding. She actually expected me to still take her after she essentially LJBF'd me. The nerve of some chicks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Doggystyle

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Good on ya lad!

Who the fook is dave matthews by the way, sounds gay!
 

spesmilitis

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If you're not getting some by the 4rd date, NEXT her. Since you were friends, should be more like the 2nd date.
 
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