Well, after being in a 2 year long relationship, breaking up and getting over it all I think I'm finally ready to get back out there. A little info... I'm a sophmore in college and in a frat. Needless to say I'm pretty social... Even when I don't want to. Anyway, I'm not too much into the Sorority slut scene at all. I'm really digging life right now. I got friends, school is going good and my hobbies really keep me interested. Anyhow, there is this one girl I want to try and go after. We've chilled out quite a few times beforehand. Anyhow, over Thanksgiving break while I'm sitting on the couch the entire time surfing the web we started talking on Aim. Yea, I know... Not the best but its a start. You know, the typical 3 hour convo into the wee hours of the night and all that jazz. We then chill out the day I get back. Her idea. We had a blast. That was last weekend. This week has been so busy for me, but I called her up the other day and asked her to lunch. She said sure... You know sounded excited about it and all. Texted me a couple of times before the lunch fling and whatnot. Went out and had another great time. That was yesterday. ... Now what? Do I keep asking her to chill and dates or what. Intiate kino? Help an old DJ out.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I think I lost my game
- Thread starter Mugen
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
best tip ever!!!
5 stars!
5 stars!
Mugen,
Call her tomorrow and make plans for another date. Ask her out that very same night since shes obviously interested in you. Keep the mystery up, remain C&F and tease her a bit.
Example:
Me: Hey! hows your day been?
Her: Oh, blah blah yada yada
Me: How about you make your day a million times better by seeing me this evening. You get extra points to by letting me surprise you with where we're going.
Just an idea. Feel free to improve
Call her tomorrow and make plans for another date. Ask her out that very same night since shes obviously interested in you. Keep the mystery up, remain C&F and tease her a bit.
Example:
Me: Hey! hows your day been?
Her: Oh, blah blah yada yada
Me: How about you make your day a million times better by seeing me this evening. You get extra points to by letting me surprise you with where we're going.
Just an idea. Feel free to improve
diablo
Master Don Juan
DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them.
Moved to DJD.
Moved to DJD.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.