Well, after being in a 2 year long relationship, breaking up and getting over it all I think I'm finally ready to get back out there. A little info... I'm a sophmore in college and in a frat. Needless to say I'm pretty social... Even when I don't want to. Anyway, I'm not too much into the Sorority slut scene at all. I'm really digging life right now. I got friends, school is going good and my hobbies really keep me interested. Anyhow, there is this one girl I want to try and go after. We've chilled out quite a few times beforehand. Anyhow, over Thanksgiving break while I'm sitting on the couch the entire time surfing the web we started talking on Aim. Yea, I know... Not the best but its a start. You know, the typical 3 hour convo into the wee hours of the night and all that jazz. We then chill out the day I get back. Her idea. We had a blast. That was last weekend. This week has been so busy for me, but I called her up the other day and asked her to lunch. She said sure... You know sounded excited about it and all. Texted me a couple of times before the lunch fling and whatnot. Went out and had another great time. That was yesterday. ... Now what? Do I keep asking her to chill and dates or what. Intiate kino? Help an old DJ out.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I think I lost my game
- Thread starter Mugen
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
best tip ever!!!
5 stars!
5 stars!
Mugen,
Call her tomorrow and make plans for another date. Ask her out that very same night since shes obviously interested in you. Keep the mystery up, remain C&F and tease her a bit.
Example:
Me: Hey! hows your day been?
Her: Oh, blah blah yada yada
Me: How about you make your day a million times better by seeing me this evening. You get extra points to by letting me surprise you with where we're going.
Just an idea. Feel free to improve
Call her tomorrow and make plans for another date. Ask her out that very same night since shes obviously interested in you. Keep the mystery up, remain C&F and tease her a bit.
Example:
Me: Hey! hows your day been?
Her: Oh, blah blah yada yada
Me: How about you make your day a million times better by seeing me this evening. You get extra points to by letting me surprise you with where we're going.
Just an idea. Feel free to improve
diablo
Master Don Juan
DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them.
Moved to DJD.
Moved to DJD.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.