"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think I got oneitis...

Italia

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So me and my GF have broken up recently(My idea)
The thing is.. I CANT stop thinking about her. I know its weird.. But im having trouble dealing with the ''Loss''
Any advice or tips that could help me out here?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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KontrollerX

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Got any other chicks you can hook up with?

Thats pretty much the only way you get out of oneitis bro.

A tip for you is the next time you break up with a chick make sure you had gotten involved with another one before leaving your current girl as then you never go without.
 

Five To One

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^^^Thats the only way out of it.
Dont try to think your way out of it or "focus all your energy toward a hobbie you love." It wont keep her out of your mind.

Getting physical with a new girl will make you feel better and help you forget her. The more azz the better.

Getting with a new girl is always a thrill, wheither its rough sex or a little kiss, and it will occupy your mind. You wont be able to help but think about your newest intamiate moment. After a while you will find yourself thinking about your ex few and far between.
 

WalkingStick

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As Pook said: "Always have a backup chick"

It wont help much now, but keep that in mind in the future
 
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