"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think I got oneitis...

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Italia

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So me and my GF have broken up recently(My idea)
The thing is.. I CANT stop thinking about her. I know its weird.. But im having trouble dealing with the ''Loss''
Any advice or tips that could help me out here?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KontrollerX

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Got any other chicks you can hook up with?

Thats pretty much the only way you get out of oneitis bro.

A tip for you is the next time you break up with a chick make sure you had gotten involved with another one before leaving your current girl as then you never go without.
 
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Five To One

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^^^Thats the only way out of it.
Dont try to think your way out of it or "focus all your energy toward a hobbie you love." It wont keep her out of your mind.

Getting physical with a new girl will make you feel better and help you forget her. The more azz the better.

Getting with a new girl is always a thrill, wheither its rough sex or a little kiss, and it will occupy your mind. You wont be able to help but think about your newest intamiate moment. After a while you will find yourself thinking about your ex few and far between.
 
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As Pook said: "Always have a backup chick"

It wont help much now, but keep that in mind in the future
 
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