"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think I got oneitis...

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Italia

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So me and my GF have broken up recently(My idea)
The thing is.. I CANT stop thinking about her. I know its weird.. But im having trouble dealing with the ''Loss''
Any advice or tips that could help me out here?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KontrollerX

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Got any other chicks you can hook up with?

Thats pretty much the only way you get out of oneitis bro.

A tip for you is the next time you break up with a chick make sure you had gotten involved with another one before leaving your current girl as then you never go without.
 
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Five To One

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^^^Thats the only way out of it.
Dont try to think your way out of it or "focus all your energy toward a hobbie you love." It wont keep her out of your mind.

Getting physical with a new girl will make you feel better and help you forget her. The more azz the better.

Getting with a new girl is always a thrill, wheither its rough sex or a little kiss, and it will occupy your mind. You wont be able to help but think about your newest intamiate moment. After a while you will find yourself thinking about your ex few and far between.
 
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As Pook said: "Always have a backup chick"

It wont help much now, but keep that in mind in the future
 
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