"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think I got a date today, but she has a boy? haha

Rebound Material

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Yea...exactly what the title said.

Anyways, its a check that I targeted in my class. She told me she had a BF but he lives in Texas. She always invites me and my friend to study with her and her friends. Lucky for me, my friend knows his sh!t cuz he ends up tutoring all of us and in a sense makes us look good. Even though we all meet up to apparently "study" we end up talking about other stuff, Id flirt, and basically just hang out 95% of the time. She texted me this weekend asking me when we're free because she really needed to get a good grade on our next midterm. I called her yesterday to try and arrange a good day for all of us and in the process of scheduling, she told me that she was gonna go to one of her friends bday party and invited me(its a day party, meaning mostly family and cake and ice cream). (Also keep in mind, we don't know eachother very well). I didnt supplicate right away and told her that Im gonna see if i can make it otherwise I would go with her. I told her to call me and let me know what time she plans to go today...OK, now for my question(s).


1) Is this a "friendly" invite, or could she be interested?

2) Should I accept going with her to this party? Im not gonna know anyone there...

3) Am I just gonna be a filler for her boy because he isnt here? or a possible replacement?


I know I didnt post all the details about this situation, but id really like some quick insight.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonGorgon

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Studying the fact that all lies contain fragments
1. she is interested - in hoing & cheating (normal)
2. Go to the party and flit with her and others - try to make out with her there and leave with her..
3. You dont want to be a replacement cause she is a cheating ho. (you may get a good f out of the deal though)
 

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Rebound Material ... I just wanted to let you know I'm there for you buddy... if you need a babysitter to help out while you go on a date I'm available. ha...
 

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dopexile said:
Rebound Material ... I just wanted to let you know I'm there for you buddy... if you need a babysitter to help out while you go on a date I'm available. ha...
i had to read that a few times before I got that hahaha.:crackup:
 
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