"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think I got a date today, but she has a boy? haha

Rebound Material

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Yea...exactly what the title said.

Anyways, its a check that I targeted in my class. She told me she had a BF but he lives in Texas. She always invites me and my friend to study with her and her friends. Lucky for me, my friend knows his sh!t cuz he ends up tutoring all of us and in a sense makes us look good. Even though we all meet up to apparently "study" we end up talking about other stuff, Id flirt, and basically just hang out 95% of the time. She texted me this weekend asking me when we're free because she really needed to get a good grade on our next midterm. I called her yesterday to try and arrange a good day for all of us and in the process of scheduling, she told me that she was gonna go to one of her friends bday party and invited me(its a day party, meaning mostly family and cake and ice cream). (Also keep in mind, we don't know eachother very well). I didnt supplicate right away and told her that Im gonna see if i can make it otherwise I would go with her. I told her to call me and let me know what time she plans to go today...OK, now for my question(s).


1) Is this a "friendly" invite, or could she be interested?

2) Should I accept going with her to this party? Im not gonna know anyone there...

3) Am I just gonna be a filler for her boy because he isnt here? or a possible replacement?


I know I didnt post all the details about this situation, but id really like some quick insight.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DonGorgon

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Studying the fact that all lies contain fragments
1. she is interested - in hoing & cheating (normal)
2. Go to the party and flit with her and others - try to make out with her there and leave with her..
3. You dont want to be a replacement cause she is a cheating ho. (you may get a good f out of the deal though)
 

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Rebound Material ... I just wanted to let you know I'm there for you buddy... if you need a babysitter to help out while you go on a date I'm available. ha...
 

Rebound Material

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dopexile said:
Rebound Material ... I just wanted to let you know I'm there for you buddy... if you need a babysitter to help out while you go on a date I'm available. ha...
i had to read that a few times before I got that hahaha.:crackup:
 
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