"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I think I got a date today, but she has a boy? haha

Rebound Material

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Yea...exactly what the title said.

Anyways, its a check that I targeted in my class. She told me she had a BF but he lives in Texas. She always invites me and my friend to study with her and her friends. Lucky for me, my friend knows his sh!t cuz he ends up tutoring all of us and in a sense makes us look good. Even though we all meet up to apparently "study" we end up talking about other stuff, Id flirt, and basically just hang out 95% of the time. She texted me this weekend asking me when we're free because she really needed to get a good grade on our next midterm. I called her yesterday to try and arrange a good day for all of us and in the process of scheduling, she told me that she was gonna go to one of her friends bday party and invited me(its a day party, meaning mostly family and cake and ice cream). (Also keep in mind, we don't know eachother very well). I didnt supplicate right away and told her that Im gonna see if i can make it otherwise I would go with her. I told her to call me and let me know what time she plans to go today...OK, now for my question(s).


1) Is this a "friendly" invite, or could she be interested?

2) Should I accept going with her to this party? Im not gonna know anyone there...

3) Am I just gonna be a filler for her boy because he isnt here? or a possible replacement?


I know I didnt post all the details about this situation, but id really like some quick insight.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonGorgon

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Studying the fact that all lies contain fragments
1. she is interested - in hoing & cheating (normal)
2. Go to the party and flit with her and others - try to make out with her there and leave with her..
3. You dont want to be a replacement cause she is a cheating ho. (you may get a good f out of the deal though)
 

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Rebound Material ... I just wanted to let you know I'm there for you buddy... if you need a babysitter to help out while you go on a date I'm available. ha...
 

Rebound Material

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dopexile said:
Rebound Material ... I just wanted to let you know I'm there for you buddy... if you need a babysitter to help out while you go on a date I'm available. ha...
i had to read that a few times before I got that hahaha.:crackup:
 
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