"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think I finally understand what some of the Indian and Asian guys harp on about here

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For the last time, I don't go for white girls. I go for Latinas. Look at my posts before you make assumptions. You're the one who starts race threads not me. It sounds like you're wishing you were white.
You have me mixed up with someone else and you're wrong.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mrgoodstuff

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I live in Toronto. A lot of Indian guys including myself score easily with white chicks. The fact that the area has so many diverse ethnicities makes women of all races open minded.

On the side note I noticed that Indian chicks, especially the hot ones, don't date outside of Indian guys.
Is your avatar a sweet indian lady?
 
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On the side note I noticed that Indian chicks, especially the hot ones, don't date outside of Indian guys.
This is not the case in America, in fact I would say that most Indian girls who are assimilated into American culture and good looking often do date interracial and will take a lower value white guy over a higher value Indian guy out of a sense of rebellion. I notice that Northern Indian women are the worst when it comes to this because they have the whole color complex going on.
 

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I cannot believe I am about to bump this thread but I just have to.

If you're an Asian or Indian guy, understand that in certain places such as California, you won't be able to get hot white girls no matter how good you are. NYC might work because of the influx of foreign white women who don't have hang ups about going after Asian and Indian men who are well put together, in fact I have seen a few big finance bros of those races pull hot Scandinavian women.

Your luck ultimately comes down to location, do not waste time in CA if you are an Asian guy of any kind or you will be like @skinnyguy who is depressed and sees white women as unattainable.

Similarly for Canadians, stay out of Vancouver and Toronto, white women there have major hang ups towards Asian and Indian men and see them as lower races.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I cannot believe I am about to bump this thread but I just have to.

If you're an Asian or Indian guy, understand that in certain places such as California, you won't be able to get hot white girls no matter how good you are. NYC might work because of the influx of foreign white women who don't have hang ups about going after Asian and Indian men who are well put together, in fact I have seen a few big finance bros of those races pull hot Scandinavian women.

Your luck ultimately comes down to location, do not waste time in CA if you are an Asian guy of any kind or you will be like @skinnyguy who is depressed and sees white women as unattainable.

Similarly for Canadians, stay out of Vancouver and Toronto, white women there have major hang ups towards Asian and Indian men and see them as lower races.
You're a miserable faggot who has nothing to do but bash guys on this forum. Stop posting for a while so that you can gain respectability again. I'm guessing you live in your moms basement and play video games all day which gives you so much time to post on here.
 

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Your luck ultimately comes down to location, do not waste time in CA if you are an Asian guy of any kind or you will be like @skinnyguy who is depressed and sees white women as unattainable.
He prefers Latinas though not white women.
 
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