"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think I fell off the wagon

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F***in' hell guys. Ever since I discovered game a few years back I stopped letting this happen to me. I've some how developed oneitis. I'm starting to give too many f***s about this chick and I catch myself doing AFC beta s*** here and there. Like...I'm so disappointed in myself. For f***s sake I haven't even had sex with this girl. I feel like all the years of honing my skills has just been completely flushed down the drain. Has this ever happened to any of you? What is the best course of action?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You haven't even fvcked her yet how could you possibly have onetis? Stop acting like a little b*tch and escalate. Go after what you want. If she denies you then you have your answer.
Just fvcking move on and find new prospects.

Regardless you need to find new prospects to kill this "onetis". Find a bar sloot & fvck her. You need a reminder that these broads aren't perfect little angels like they are portrayed to be. Kill the pedastal! She's drying up.

A good % of guys fall off the wagon all the time, there was a recent post this dude found this place 5yrs ago! A massive case of onetis and doesn't know what to do cause his ex has a new f-buddy. This isn't fvckin rocket science!
 
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You haven't even fvcked her yet how could you possibly have onetis? Stop acting like a little b*tch and escalate. Go after what you want. If she denies you then you have your
Just fvcking move on and find new prospects.

Regardless you need to find new prospects to kill this "onetis". Find a bar sloot & fvck her. You need a reminder that these broads aren't perfect little angels like they are portrayed to be. Kill the pedastal! She's drying up.

A good % of guys fall off the wagon all the time, there was a recent post this dude found this place 5yrs ago! A massive case of onetis and doesn't know what to do cause his ex has a new f-buddy. This isn't fvckin rocket science!
Thank you, you're right. I guess I was just delusional and needed a little sense talked into me. She is no different than any other woman and therefore shouldn't be treated any different or held in any special regards. I suspect a lack of plates as the cause.
 

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How can you have oneitis when you haven't even fvcked her yet? Maybe your skills weren't as good as you thought.
 

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How can you have oneitis when you haven't even fvcked her yet? Maybe your skills weren't as good as you thought.
I never said my skills were perfect. But I know I haven't been in this situation for a good 2-3 years now. I mean I've fvcked chicks since changing my mindset and managed to keep myself emotionally detached.

It doesn't make any sense to me either. Not one bit.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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