"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think I fell off the wagon

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F***in' hell guys. Ever since I discovered game a few years back I stopped letting this happen to me. I've some how developed oneitis. I'm starting to give too many f***s about this chick and I catch myself doing AFC beta s*** here and there. Like...I'm so disappointed in myself. For f***s sake I haven't even had sex with this girl. I feel like all the years of honing my skills has just been completely flushed down the drain. Has this ever happened to any of you? What is the best course of action?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hockeyfreak79

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You haven't even fvcked her yet how could you possibly have onetis? Stop acting like a little b*tch and escalate. Go after what you want. If she denies you then you have your answer.
Just fvcking move on and find new prospects.

Regardless you need to find new prospects to kill this "onetis". Find a bar sloot & fvck her. You need a reminder that these broads aren't perfect little angels like they are portrayed to be. Kill the pedastal! She's drying up.

A good % of guys fall off the wagon all the time, there was a recent post this dude found this place 5yrs ago! A massive case of onetis and doesn't know what to do cause his ex has a new f-buddy. This isn't fvckin rocket science!
 
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You haven't even fvcked her yet how could you possibly have onetis? Stop acting like a little b*tch and escalate. Go after what you want. If she denies you then you have your
Just fvcking move on and find new prospects.

Regardless you need to find new prospects to kill this "onetis". Find a bar sloot & fvck her. You need a reminder that these broads aren't perfect little angels like they are portrayed to be. Kill the pedastal! She's drying up.

A good % of guys fall off the wagon all the time, there was a recent post this dude found this place 5yrs ago! A massive case of onetis and doesn't know what to do cause his ex has a new f-buddy. This isn't fvckin rocket science!
Thank you, you're right. I guess I was just delusional and needed a little sense talked into me. She is no different than any other woman and therefore shouldn't be treated any different or held in any special regards. I suspect a lack of plates as the cause.
 

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How can you have oneitis when you haven't even fvcked her yet? Maybe your skills weren't as good as you thought.
 

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How can you have oneitis when you haven't even fvcked her yet? Maybe your skills weren't as good as you thought.
I never said my skills were perfect. But I know I haven't been in this situation for a good 2-3 years now. I mean I've fvcked chicks since changing my mindset and managed to keep myself emotionally detached.

It doesn't make any sense to me either. Not one bit.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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