"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think I fell off the wagon

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F***in' hell guys. Ever since I discovered game a few years back I stopped letting this happen to me. I've some how developed oneitis. I'm starting to give too many f***s about this chick and I catch myself doing AFC beta s*** here and there. Like...I'm so disappointed in myself. For f***s sake I haven't even had sex with this girl. I feel like all the years of honing my skills has just been completely flushed down the drain. Has this ever happened to any of you? What is the best course of action?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hockeyfreak79

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You haven't even fvcked her yet how could you possibly have onetis? Stop acting like a little b*tch and escalate. Go after what you want. If she denies you then you have your answer.
Just fvcking move on and find new prospects.

Regardless you need to find new prospects to kill this "onetis". Find a bar sloot & fvck her. You need a reminder that these broads aren't perfect little angels like they are portrayed to be. Kill the pedastal! She's drying up.

A good % of guys fall off the wagon all the time, there was a recent post this dude found this place 5yrs ago! A massive case of onetis and doesn't know what to do cause his ex has a new f-buddy. This isn't fvckin rocket science!
 
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You haven't even fvcked her yet how could you possibly have onetis? Stop acting like a little b*tch and escalate. Go after what you want. If she denies you then you have your
Just fvcking move on and find new prospects.

Regardless you need to find new prospects to kill this "onetis". Find a bar sloot & fvck her. You need a reminder that these broads aren't perfect little angels like they are portrayed to be. Kill the pedastal! She's drying up.

A good % of guys fall off the wagon all the time, there was a recent post this dude found this place 5yrs ago! A massive case of onetis and doesn't know what to do cause his ex has a new f-buddy. This isn't fvckin rocket science!
Thank you, you're right. I guess I was just delusional and needed a little sense talked into me. She is no different than any other woman and therefore shouldn't be treated any different or held in any special regards. I suspect a lack of plates as the cause.
 

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How can you have oneitis when you haven't even fvcked her yet? Maybe your skills weren't as good as you thought.
 

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How can you have oneitis when you haven't even fvcked her yet? Maybe your skills weren't as good as you thought.
I never said my skills were perfect. But I know I haven't been in this situation for a good 2-3 years now. I mean I've fvcked chicks since changing my mindset and managed to keep myself emotionally detached.

It doesn't make any sense to me either. Not one bit.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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