"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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As a follow-up to this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223248

I am 26 and as I said there, I was an idiot for not trying to get girls sooner. I guess I was too scared before, that's why I didn't try anything and in my age, I am almost totally inexperienced (if I don't count a few totally drunk lays, which mostly ended up with me not being able to perform anyways). The girl from the thread dumped me if you didn't read the last post.

Now it just seems to me that my situation is beyond repair, because when I get another girl into bed, she will see that I am not able to provide good sex for her.

I need to know a solution, but I can't think of any - I am hardly getting a few dates a year and only one or two of them end up in bed, so far only with poor performance on my side.

Is there a way out of this ****? What way?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You need to work on your confidence and self-worth some more. Read the entire DJ Bible, and you'll feel better.

I'm 19 and feel the same way. But we're young, and there are plenty of chances out there for both of us. Women today are wilder than ever, and there's more than enough to go around.

Another thing to keep in mind, you found this site, and are working on self-improvement like the rest of us here. Think about all of the dudes out there who don't know of this site, and are making the mistakes this forum warns us about. You're already one step ahead of them.
 
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You're not fvcked, the good thing is that there's more material out there than ever. Imagine being in this situation 15 years ago, with next to nothing to help you. I would read the DJ Bible and watch through all the RSD videos on Youtube. It will take time but you will be a better man for it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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26? Pffft. I started this site in my mid-30's and it is paying huge dividends.
 
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LMFAO said:
You're not fvcked, the good thing is that there's more material out there than ever. Imagine being in this situation 15 years ago, with next to nothing to help you. I would read the DJ Bible and watch through all the RSD videos on Youtube. It will take time but you will be a better man for it.
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Early 2000s all I remember was askmen.com & david deangelo that wasnt til 03 from what I remember. Oh & Doc Love around the same time.
 
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