"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think I am F.U.C.K.E.D

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As a follow-up to this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223248

I am 26 and as I said there, I was an idiot for not trying to get girls sooner. I guess I was too scared before, that's why I didn't try anything and in my age, I am almost totally inexperienced (if I don't count a few totally drunk lays, which mostly ended up with me not being able to perform anyways). The girl from the thread dumped me if you didn't read the last post.

Now it just seems to me that my situation is beyond repair, because when I get another girl into bed, she will see that I am not able to provide good sex for her.

I need to know a solution, but I can't think of any - I am hardly getting a few dates a year and only one or two of them end up in bed, so far only with poor performance on my side.

Is there a way out of this ****? What way?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zapp Brannigan

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You need to work on your confidence and self-worth some more. Read the entire DJ Bible, and you'll feel better.

I'm 19 and feel the same way. But we're young, and there are plenty of chances out there for both of us. Women today are wilder than ever, and there's more than enough to go around.

Another thing to keep in mind, you found this site, and are working on self-improvement like the rest of us here. Think about all of the dudes out there who don't know of this site, and are making the mistakes this forum warns us about. You're already one step ahead of them.
 
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You're not fvcked, the good thing is that there's more material out there than ever. Imagine being in this situation 15 years ago, with next to nothing to help you. I would read the DJ Bible and watch through all the RSD videos on Youtube. It will take time but you will be a better man for it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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26? Pffft. I started this site in my mid-30's and it is paying huge dividends.
 
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LMFAO said:
You're not fvcked, the good thing is that there's more material out there than ever. Imagine being in this situation 15 years ago, with next to nothing to help you. I would read the DJ Bible and watch through all the RSD videos on Youtube. It will take time but you will be a better man for it.
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Early 2000s all I remember was askmen.com & david deangelo that wasnt til 03 from what I remember. Oh & Doc Love around the same time.
 
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