"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think I am F.U.C.K.E.D

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As a follow-up to this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223248

I am 26 and as I said there, I was an idiot for not trying to get girls sooner. I guess I was too scared before, that's why I didn't try anything and in my age, I am almost totally inexperienced (if I don't count a few totally drunk lays, which mostly ended up with me not being able to perform anyways). The girl from the thread dumped me if you didn't read the last post.

Now it just seems to me that my situation is beyond repair, because when I get another girl into bed, she will see that I am not able to provide good sex for her.

I need to know a solution, but I can't think of any - I am hardly getting a few dates a year and only one or two of them end up in bed, so far only with poor performance on my side.

Is there a way out of this ****? What way?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You need to work on your confidence and self-worth some more. Read the entire DJ Bible, and you'll feel better.

I'm 19 and feel the same way. But we're young, and there are plenty of chances out there for both of us. Women today are wilder than ever, and there's more than enough to go around.

Another thing to keep in mind, you found this site, and are working on self-improvement like the rest of us here. Think about all of the dudes out there who don't know of this site, and are making the mistakes this forum warns us about. You're already one step ahead of them.
 
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You're not fvcked, the good thing is that there's more material out there than ever. Imagine being in this situation 15 years ago, with next to nothing to help you. I would read the DJ Bible and watch through all the RSD videos on Youtube. It will take time but you will be a better man for it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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26? Pffft. I started this site in my mid-30's and it is paying huge dividends.
 
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LMFAO said:
You're not fvcked, the good thing is that there's more material out there than ever. Imagine being in this situation 15 years ago, with next to nothing to help you. I would read the DJ Bible and watch through all the RSD videos on Youtube. It will take time but you will be a better man for it.
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Early 2000s all I remember was askmen.com & david deangelo that wasnt til 03 from what I remember. Oh & Doc Love around the same time.
 
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