“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I tend to daydream alot

Enigma2517

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This sounds stupid but I really can't stop daydreaming. Either I'm sitting in class or listening to CDs or whatever and I just start fantisizing. Usually about chicks. Thats not good. Probably creates some unwanted oneitis there and what not. Might be killing in ambitions. I dunno you tell me.

From what I've read on this site so far, this sort of behavoir is not helpful at all. I think getting rid of it might be key in improving myself. I'm going to start trying tomorrow. Any hints?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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try taking up meditation or something, do it everyday for half and hour at the same time of day....works wonders for concentration
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Unbridled_1
sounds like attention deficit disorder.... get some meds
Please, most people are misdiagnosed with ADD. I call it short attention span. I bet you come from the bible belt that helped Bush get re-elected. The highest cases of ADD come from bible belt, or rather.. parents who rather watch tv and mind their business than raise children.
 

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you dont have ADD.....I thought the same about me..I daydream alot and still do!

I am very passionate with alot of fantisies and ideas.

I say Day Dream..but do productive daydreaming

like meditation!
 

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as a man who has been on all kindas of drugs for mental problems i'll tell you right now, it's only temporary, if that....the only way to solve this stuff is to change the way you think......meditation and daydreaming are not the same, mediation is INTENSE concentration and if your feeling drowsy and your mind wanders your not doing it right, you should be aware of everything around you, your body and enviroment when meditating
 

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I'm the same.

Go out and do some excersize and socialise a lot more. Dont get into a sedatory lifestyle again.

As soon as you force yourself to socialise more, you're a lot more alert to everything around you.

Meditation would be good if you dont start day dreaming. Although really, you can daydream while medatating... well it's not day dreaming... but it's close... blaugh :p
 
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