“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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nroug7

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And I need help, I mean. I need real help here.
The guy has become so completely consumed by his own arrogance he fails to see the need of things like Pride and Dignity.
I think it might be a little to late to pull in the reins on him, he's completely let loose and has no self-respect.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zion said:
How does one become arrogant to the point of being consumed by it , if said person has no self respect?
Well, He's arrogant as all hell, but he has no self respect, I don't know how to describe it, he doesn't care for the quality of girls he's hooking up with, or their backgrounds or anything.
He doesn't care about his public standing, he just wants cheap thrills, he's not in the game to improve on himself, he just wants to hit on women.
He doesn't even really believe he is the prize or anything, he's just pursuing women *Right, he doesn't even succeed with many because he is actively pursuing them.
Although. he does seem to get the idea with plates. But he might be trying to get too many :crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nroug7 said:
Well, He's arrogant as all hell, but he has no self respect, I don't know how to describe it, he doesn't care for the quality of girls he's hooking up with, or their backgrounds or anything.
He doesn't care about his public standing, he just wants cheap thrills, he's not in the game to improve on himself, he just wants to hit on women.
He doesn't even really believe he is the prize or anything, he's just pursuing women *Right, he doesn't even succeed with many because he is actively pursuing them.
Although. he does seem to get the idea with plates. But he might be trying to get too many :crackup:
I would call this "egomaniac with an inferiority complex"
 

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nroug7 said:
And I need help, I mean. I need real help here.
The guy has become so completely consumed by his own arrogance he fails to see the need of things like Pride and Dignity.
I think it might be a little to late to pull in the reins on him, he's completely let loose and has no self-respect.

Did he ask you for help ?
 

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You can't help him. He needs to hit rock-bottom.
 

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Let him do his thing for a while. It will probably help him figure out what he does want in the end. He will either want lots of ass or something more committed. It's up to him to decide that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bradd80 said:
Ok wait a second nroug, now i don't mean to be argumentative or anything but your friend does seem to have some very don juan like qualities. Allow me to demonstrate just from what you've told us:













I mean, is it possible that maybe you and him just have different ideas of what a hot girl is? Some of my friends - to me - seem to have lower standards in their women, but who am I to tell them what beautiful should be?

Does your friend seem happy the way things are, or does he bang chics that are so fvcking ugly that you're embarrassed to even be associated with him? If it is this last one, then i can understand why you feel the way you do
He's not happy at all, it's just his way of making up for the things he lacks. He's unhappy, jobless, doesn't want to improve on anything etc.
By Arrogant, I don't mean suavely arrogant, I mean jerkishly arrogant. His opening line is "Nice tits" - Can you say Slvt shields! :crackup: (Can you understand how that reflects upon me as his friend?) and he goes out of his way to try and start fights with people.
He doesn't care about his public standing as in, he doesn't care about what others think of him, this would be a good thing if it weren't for the fact that he has no sense of self-pride.
In fact, I have a feeling the guy may suffer from some sort of depression/mental illness, he normally acts extremely negatively, and it's as if he's trying to use this stuff to cover his flaws rather then work on them.
Hopefully I've gone a bit more in-depth to explain things, I should have considered including the stuff about him seeming depressive in a previous post, but it did not cross my mind up until now.
 

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uh time to get new friends man.
 
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