I stopped contact with her and she finally contacts me

[baurman]

So I was talking to thsi girl that I like, like every day and I told myself, I NEED TO STOP before I get put in the Friends zone. So I forced myself to stop contacting her. We went 2 days without talking. And she FINALLY texts me saying "hey u! sorry im always busy lately. how u been"

Funny cause how can she be busy, she has no job, etc. probably busy just going out. But I didn't txt her back yet. Should I wait like about 3 hours or so? and just txt her back with something like "hey ive been super busy this week too" or what? She's playing the game Im sure with me.

 

[Effington]

I agree, if you're trying to build attraction then texting is not the way to go. It's hard to make jokes, and you never know if they're around to respond anyway. I wouldn't ignore her, but if you always give 1-2 word responses, she'll get the picture.

 

[baurman]

This girl is a txt wh0re. She hates talking on the phone because when I call her she rarely makes convo I hold the conversation and I end up telling her that Im gonna get off the phone. But she always tells me to get on AIM to talk to her or she Txts me.

 

[WC2]

This girl is a txt wh0re. She hates talking on the phone because when I call her she rarely makes convo I hold the conversation and I end up telling her that Im gonna get off the phone. But she always tells me to get on AIM to talk to her or she Txts me.

Good for her. You like talking on the phone so if she wants to contact you, she will have to pick up her lazy ass and dial your number.

Don't change how you do things over a woman.

 

[Jitterbug]

This girl is a txt wh0re. She hates talking on the phone because when I call her she rarely makes convo I hold the conversation and I end up telling her that Im gonna get off the phone. But she always tells me to get on AIM to talk to her or she Txts me.

Attention wh0re flag. TXT & IM allow them to communicate with many at the same time. A phone call forces them to focus on just one person.

Hold your ground. Don't get sucked in.

And screw the phone too. I like talking in person. My phone convos are often 2 minutes max. Make a date with her.