"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I Stole My Best Friends Target!

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DJ_Hero said:
Rule #1 of Bro Code:

Bros before hoes.
nuff said. Don't let chicks mess with your fellow ****s.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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UPDATE…

Went to his house with cofee, apologized! Hugged him told him I loved him like a brother!
Said I WOULD NEVER DO THAT AGAIN! Thankful we're ok again :)

Even though I was wrong I reinforced all his mistakes though. I think I got through this time because HE SAW it in action...he said "how did you get her to kiss you so fast, you were pushing her away & she was all over you"?

This case is closed. learned my lesson

NEVER EVER DO THAT TO A FRIEND unless u dnt give a f*ck about him or he clears it with you

Thx again guys for all the input
 

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IamJosan said:
You were a **** if he didn't agree to you going for it.
As I stated I kept giving him advice, 'kiss close', 'more kino' etc... I said "if you dnt kiss close I will" josan I dnt care if ur ok with it, I only care that he knws its a mistake I made

my main mistake was not showing him exactly what to do. You cant tell just anyone "hey go kiss close that chick" without a strategy
 

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NoCommitments said:
UPDATE…

Went to his house with cofee, apologized! Hugged him told him I loved him like a brother!
Said I WOULD NEVER DO THAT AGAIN! Thankful we're ok again :)

Even though I was wrong I reinforced all his mistakes though. I think I got through this time because HE SAW it in action...he said "how did you get her to kiss you so fast, you were pushing her away & she was all over you"?

This case is closed. learned my lesson

NEVER EVER DO THAT TO A FRIEND unless u dnt give a f*ck about him or he clears it with you

Thx again guys for all the input
+1 Rep for being a man of your word, for examining your motives and behavior and taking action to make it right.

You swallowed your pride, sought counsel, and took care of business. You set an excellent example publically. I have A LOT of respect for that. Great job!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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