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Don Juan
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nuff said. Don't let chicks mess with your fellow ****s.DJ_Hero said:
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I Stole My Best Friends Target!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Don Juan
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UPDATE…
Went to his house with cofee, apologized! Hugged him told him I loved him like a brother!
Said I WOULD NEVER DO THAT AGAIN! Thankful we're ok again
Even though I was wrong I reinforced all his mistakes though. I think I got through this time because HE SAW it in action...he said "how did you get her to kiss you so fast, you were pushing her away & she was all over you"?
This case is closed. learned my lesson
NEVER EVER DO THAT TO A FRIEND unless u dnt give a f*ck about him or he clears it with you
Thx again guys for all the input
Went to his house with cofee, apologized! Hugged him told him I loved him like a brother!
Said I WOULD NEVER DO THAT AGAIN! Thankful we're ok again
Even though I was wrong I reinforced all his mistakes though. I think I got through this time because HE SAW it in action...he said "how did you get her to kiss you so fast, you were pushing her away & she was all over you"?
This case is closed. learned my lesson
NEVER EVER DO THAT TO A FRIEND unless u dnt give a f*ck about him or he clears it with you
Thx again guys for all the input
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Don Juan
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As I stated I kept giving him advice, 'kiss close', 'more kino' etc... I said "if you dnt kiss close I will" josan I dnt care if ur ok with it, I only care that he knws its a mistake I madeIamJosan said:
my main mistake was not showing him exactly what to do. You cant tell just anyone "hey go kiss close that chick" without a strategy
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
+1 Rep for being a man of your word, for examining your motives and behavior and taking action to make it right.NoCommitments said:UPDATE…
Went to his house with cofee, apologized! Hugged him told him I loved him like a brother!
Said I WOULD NEVER DO THAT AGAIN! Thankful we're ok again
Even though I was wrong I reinforced all his mistakes though. I think I got through this time because HE SAW it in action...he said "how did you get her to kiss you so fast, you were pushing her away & she was all over you"?
This case is closed. learned my lesson
NEVER EVER DO THAT TO A FRIEND unless u dnt give a f*ck about him or he clears it with you
Thx again guys for all the input
You swallowed your pride, sought counsel, and took care of business. You set an excellent example publically. I have A LOT of respect for that. Great job!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.