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Don Juan
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nuff said. Don't let chicks mess with your fellow ****s.DJ_Hero said:
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I Stole My Best Friends Target!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Don Juan
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UPDATE…
Went to his house with cofee, apologized! Hugged him told him I loved him like a brother!
Said I WOULD NEVER DO THAT AGAIN! Thankful we're ok again
Even though I was wrong I reinforced all his mistakes though. I think I got through this time because HE SAW it in action...he said "how did you get her to kiss you so fast, you were pushing her away & she was all over you"?
This case is closed. learned my lesson
NEVER EVER DO THAT TO A FRIEND unless u dnt give a f*ck about him or he clears it with you
Thx again guys for all the input
Went to his house with cofee, apologized! Hugged him told him I loved him like a brother!
Said I WOULD NEVER DO THAT AGAIN! Thankful we're ok again
Even though I was wrong I reinforced all his mistakes though. I think I got through this time because HE SAW it in action...he said "how did you get her to kiss you so fast, you were pushing her away & she was all over you"?
This case is closed. learned my lesson
NEVER EVER DO THAT TO A FRIEND unless u dnt give a f*ck about him or he clears it with you
Thx again guys for all the input
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Don Juan
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As I stated I kept giving him advice, 'kiss close', 'more kino' etc... I said "if you dnt kiss close I will" josan I dnt care if ur ok with it, I only care that he knws its a mistake I madeIamJosan said:
my main mistake was not showing him exactly what to do. You cant tell just anyone "hey go kiss close that chick" without a strategy
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Master Don Juan
+1 Rep for being a man of your word, for examining your motives and behavior and taking action to make it right.NoCommitments said:UPDATE…
Went to his house with cofee, apologized! Hugged him told him I loved him like a brother!
Said I WOULD NEVER DO THAT AGAIN! Thankful we're ok again
Even though I was wrong I reinforced all his mistakes though. I think I got through this time because HE SAW it in action...he said "how did you get her to kiss you so fast, you were pushing her away & she was all over you"?
This case is closed. learned my lesson
NEVER EVER DO THAT TO A FRIEND unless u dnt give a f*ck about him or he clears it with you
Thx again guys for all the input
You swallowed your pride, sought counsel, and took care of business. You set an excellent example publically. I have A LOT of respect for that. Great job!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.