Hey guys been out of the dating game for 2 years busy with school and work and just started dating again. I consider myself a good looking guy but i always ruin it. On 3 occasions i was close to hooking up with 2 girl from school and 1 from online but since ive been single for a long time i didint realize i was coming off as desperate and needy with these girls because i wanted to get a gf badly and they simply lost interest. What can i do to stop getting so excited and acting desperate. Help
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I seem desperate?
- Thread starter Brught1
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
dustmuffin
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Wht did you do that was desperate?
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Yea itd be helpful if you elaborated a bit more and provided specifics. But either way guys typically make almost the exact same mistakes. And many of the members here are going to direct you to resources such as the DJ Bible. I'm also a fan of the following:
- The book of Pook
- 60 Years of Challenge (ebooks)
- Bradd80's thread on here (just google it, I can't remember the title off hand)
- Braddock's Guide to Text and Phone game
Whenever a girl seems really interested in me. I move way to fast and i start coming off as desperate. Thanka for the tips so far
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Read the posts suggested. It will take time and practice to relax.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.