"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I went on a date today, everything went well. after the date I got a hug and I asked her if she had a good time she said yes and said to call her. I dunno if she is saying that to keep from hurting my feelings or what, but do you think there will be another date?

she works at a restuarant where I stop to get breakfast every morning before work, i told her I would prob see her in the morning seeing as to how I will need to get breakfast, she told me she doesn't have to be in til 6 and she would try to make it there a bit early. so what's the deal is she out to play ball or just keep me sitting on the bench?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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she sounds pretty interested dude.
 
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seeing as to how I will probably see her in the morning, when should I call her, tomorrow evening? I don't want to come off as clingy and annoying.
 
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You sure are impatient for answers...

CALM THE FVCK DOWN!!!

Don't change your attitude to suddenly, or she will get suspicious, but what you are aiming for is to act as if you weren't very interested, but reluctantly accepted to go out with her to see what she is all about.

BTW, welcome to the club...

As far as the calling goes, if you are thinking 'should I call tomorrow, or the day after' always go for the later of the two options... so when you say that to yourself, quickly add 'I'll call the day after'.

This girl is definately into you, so just talk to her about her as much as possible, and don't lean into her... just be comfortable... play with her, joke with her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Everything seems fine to me. Nothing really went wrong or out of the ordinary, don't sweat, you're doing good just keep it up.
 
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Wow I have to go to the bathroom later do you guys think I should or should not wash my hands after?

I also have to drive to work should I take 110th street or 29th.

Also I don't know if I should eat eggs or cereal for breakfast.
 
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Originally posted by animal crackers
Wow I have to go to the bathroom later do you guys think I should or should not wash my hands after?

I also have to drive to work should I take 110th street or 29th.

Also I don't know if I should eat eggs or cereal for breakfast.
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Yes you should

I dont care

Cereal all the way! Eggs is boring on its own!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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