"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anurizm

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I went on a date today, everything went well. after the date I got a hug and I asked her if she had a good time she said yes and said to call her. I dunno if she is saying that to keep from hurting my feelings or what, but do you think there will be another date?

she works at a restuarant where I stop to get breakfast every morning before work, i told her I would prob see her in the morning seeing as to how I will need to get breakfast, she told me she doesn't have to be in til 6 and she would try to make it there a bit early. so what's the deal is she out to play ball or just keep me sitting on the bench?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Modro

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she sounds pretty interested dude.
 

Anurizm

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seeing as to how I will probably see her in the morning, when should I call her, tomorrow evening? I don't want to come off as clingy and annoying.
 

So pimp its scary

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You sure are impatient for answers...

CALM THE FVCK DOWN!!!

Don't change your attitude to suddenly, or she will get suspicious, but what you are aiming for is to act as if you weren't very interested, but reluctantly accepted to go out with her to see what she is all about.

BTW, welcome to the club...

As far as the calling goes, if you are thinking 'should I call tomorrow, or the day after' always go for the later of the two options... so when you say that to yourself, quickly add 'I'll call the day after'.

This girl is definately into you, so just talk to her about her as much as possible, and don't lean into her... just be comfortable... play with her, joke with her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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Everything seems fine to me. Nothing really went wrong or out of the ordinary, don't sweat, you're doing good just keep it up.
 

animal crackers

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Wow I have to go to the bathroom later do you guys think I should or should not wash my hands after?

I also have to drive to work should I take 110th street or 29th.

Also I don't know if I should eat eggs or cereal for breakfast.
 

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Originally posted by animal crackers
Wow I have to go to the bathroom later do you guys think I should or should not wash my hands after?

I also have to drive to work should I take 110th street or 29th.

Also I don't know if I should eat eggs or cereal for breakfast.
Yes you should

I dont care

Cereal all the way! Eggs is boring on its own!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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