"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I went on a date today, everything went well. after the date I got a hug and I asked her if she had a good time she said yes and said to call her. I dunno if she is saying that to keep from hurting my feelings or what, but do you think there will be another date?

she works at a restuarant where I stop to get breakfast every morning before work, i told her I would prob see her in the morning seeing as to how I will need to get breakfast, she told me she doesn't have to be in til 6 and she would try to make it there a bit early. so what's the deal is she out to play ball or just keep me sitting on the bench?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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she sounds pretty interested dude.
 
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seeing as to how I will probably see her in the morning, when should I call her, tomorrow evening? I don't want to come off as clingy and annoying.
 
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You sure are impatient for answers...

CALM THE FVCK DOWN!!!

Don't change your attitude to suddenly, or she will get suspicious, but what you are aiming for is to act as if you weren't very interested, but reluctantly accepted to go out with her to see what she is all about.

BTW, welcome to the club...

As far as the calling goes, if you are thinking 'should I call tomorrow, or the day after' always go for the later of the two options... so when you say that to yourself, quickly add 'I'll call the day after'.

This girl is definately into you, so just talk to her about her as much as possible, and don't lean into her... just be comfortable... play with her, joke with her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Everything seems fine to me. Nothing really went wrong or out of the ordinary, don't sweat, you're doing good just keep it up.
 
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Wow I have to go to the bathroom later do you guys think I should or should not wash my hands after?

I also have to drive to work should I take 110th street or 29th.

Also I don't know if I should eat eggs or cereal for breakfast.
 
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Originally posted by animal crackers
Wow I have to go to the bathroom later do you guys think I should or should not wash my hands after?

I also have to drive to work should I take 110th street or 29th.

Also I don't know if I should eat eggs or cereal for breakfast.
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Yes you should

I dont care

Cereal all the way! Eggs is boring on its own!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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