"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I Scattered her hope, now i feel bad!!

Norisman

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I'm continuing my daily club/pub fun in London. Tonight I went to a really cool club and was approached by a bunch of American chicks.... I dance with them to warm them up, until they hooked with my wings. Then I gave the chick who was really into me the excuse that I'm going to get a drink.
That is where (bar) I met a smoking hot Lithuanian chick. I talked to her and one thing led to another... since we wer both tipsy we made out in a couple of mins... I could see the other chick was devastated and her friends made fun of her. She later cut her night short and went home with a chubby "man hater" looking friend!
My guilt here is that this chick showed genuine interest in me; I rewarded her by making her look ridiculous in the presence of her friends BUT I don't always get a chance to hook up with Eastern Europeans. Do you guys think my actions wer MEAN, would you feel bad?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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wjh

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Girls do it to guys all the time.

Don't feel bad.

You made a decision that was best for you. The end.

If she doesn't like it she can go home (and she did).
 
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