Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I Scattered her hope, now i feel bad!!

Norisman

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I'm continuing my daily club/pub fun in London. Tonight I went to a really cool club and was approached by a bunch of American chicks.... I dance with them to warm them up, until they hooked with my wings. Then I gave the chick who was really into me the excuse that I'm going to get a drink.
That is where (bar) I met a smoking hot Lithuanian chick. I talked to her and one thing led to another... since we wer both tipsy we made out in a couple of mins... I could see the other chick was devastated and her friends made fun of her. She later cut her night short and went home with a chubby "man hater" looking friend!
My guilt here is that this chick showed genuine interest in me; I rewarded her by making her look ridiculous in the presence of her friends BUT I don't always get a chance to hook up with Eastern Europeans. Do you guys think my actions wer MEAN, would you feel bad?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wjh

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Girls do it to guys all the time.

Don't feel bad.

You made a decision that was best for you. The end.

If she doesn't like it she can go home (and she did).
 
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