"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I Scattered her hope, now i feel bad!!

Norisman

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I'm continuing my daily club/pub fun in London. Tonight I went to a really cool club and was approached by a bunch of American chicks.... I dance with them to warm them up, until they hooked with my wings. Then I gave the chick who was really into me the excuse that I'm going to get a drink.
That is where (bar) I met a smoking hot Lithuanian chick. I talked to her and one thing led to another... since we wer both tipsy we made out in a couple of mins... I could see the other chick was devastated and her friends made fun of her. She later cut her night short and went home with a chubby "man hater" looking friend!
My guilt here is that this chick showed genuine interest in me; I rewarded her by making her look ridiculous in the presence of her friends BUT I don't always get a chance to hook up with Eastern Europeans. Do you guys think my actions wer MEAN, would you feel bad?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wjh

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Girls do it to guys all the time.

Don't feel bad.

You made a decision that was best for you. The end.

If she doesn't like it she can go home (and she did).
 
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