I say hi to some chicks but they dont say hi?

[webbguy79]

Hello iam a new member here and i want to know why when you say hello to some ladies they dont say nothing back? After they give me a werid look i feel like a dumbbuck!! Anyone has this happen to you?

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

are you average looking or ugly? in what tone of voice are you saying hi?? make sure you say it in a tone of voice where you sound friendly, plus say it with a smile. Maybe you look all serious when you say hi and they b1tches think youre some kind of weirdo!

 

[Desdinova]

That's why "Hi" is a 5hit opener. Go right into the conversation you're planning to say after you say "Hi", or do you even have a clue what you're going to talk about?

 

[webbguy79]

Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
are you average looking or ugly? in what tone of voice are you saying hi?? make sure you say it in a tone of voice where you sound friendly, plus say it with a smile. Maybe you look all serious when you say hi and they b1tches think youre some kind of weirdo!

Iam average iam hispanic 5'5 149 lbs black hair brown eyes goatee.

 

[spider_007]

i'll tell you a little story from couple of days ago.

i was sitting behind a computer in CLASS and there was a chick beside me. i was well ahead of her in the project but i forgot haw to do something. SO I ASKED HER. My exact words; "HI, do (pause) you remember haw to trim this?" The minute i said hi she trund her head and gave me this: "what the hell do you want" look (without sayinga anything) I caught me a little of guard, but i wasn't doing anything i wouldn't do with any other person, male or female, so i just kept going and asked her the question. she tried to help, but was useless. I decided to ignore her for the rest of the class, but she kept making comments like; "finally done" or "gawwd, this is hard...", which kinda drew me back into a short conversation with her (in which i found out she is a shooter gurl at a bar, totaly NOT my type)....

My point (i forgot ).... unless you got something to say after "hi" don't bother. also get eyecontact and smile before you say hi

 

[webbguy79]

I just like saying hi..you know to be friendly. I say it with a smile.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Originally posted by spider_007
"HI, do (pause) you remember haw to trim this?" The minute i said hi she trund her head and gave me this: "what the hell do you want" look (without sayinga anything) I caught me a little of guard

Did you think that maybe you came off as a bit sensitive/nice guy when you said Hi and that didn't interest her?? I personally would have said with an assertive tone of voice "can you help me out with this." There is no need to say hi all the time.

 

[webbguy79]

What is a good thing to talk about with a girl when you see her?

 

[Smooth Player 056]

Originally posted by webbguy79
What is a good thing to talk about with a girl when you see her?

Start it off commenting on her "interesting" accesory, clothing, shoes..etc. etc......then just build a convo from there- this is how I started out.

I do have to agree....HI is the crapiest opener ever.....also it doesnt matter what you look like.....when style used to do bootcamps with mystery he would wear this fake ass black wig and put these disgusting piercings on his lip. He looked BAD....he approached got the number every time.....he did this to show his students LOOKS DONT MATTER...

Peace Out

 

[Gonzalo]

Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Start it off commenting on her "interesting" accesory, clothing, shoes..etc. etc......then just build a convo from there- this is how I started out.

E.g. "I see you're drinking 1%..."