"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I say hi to some chicks but they dont say hi?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
spider_007
Master Don Juan
i was sitting behind a computer in CLASS and there was a chick beside me. i was well ahead of her in the project but i forgot haw to do something. SO I ASKED HER. My exact words; "HI, do (pause) you remember haw to trim this?" The minute i said hi she trund her head and gave me this: "what the hell do you want" look (without sayinga anything) I caught me a little of guard, but i wasn't doing anything i wouldn't do with any other person, male or female, so i just kept going and asked her the question. she tried to help, but was useless. I decided to ignore her for the rest of the class, but she kept making comments like; "finally done" or "gawwd, this is hard...", which kinda drew me back into a short conversation with her (in which i found out she is a shooter gurl at a bar, totaly NOT my type)....
My point (i forgot
).... unless you got something to say after "hi" don't bother. also get eyecontact and smile before you say hi"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
Did you think that maybe you came off as a bit sensitive/nice guy when you said Hi and that didn't interest her?? I personally would have said with an assertive tone of voice "can you help me out with this." There is no need to say hi all the time.
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Start it off commenting on her "interesting" accesory, clothing, shoes..etc. etc......then just build a convo from there- this is how I started out.
I do have to agree....HI is the crapiest opener ever.....also it doesnt matter what you look like.....when style used to do bootcamps with mystery he would wear this fake ass black wig and put these disgusting piercings on his lip. He looked BAD....he approached got the number every time.....he did this to show his students LOOKS DONT MATTER...
Peace Out
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.