I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I hate that this is my girl mentality. Anyways you need to calm down a real dj never gets angry we're smart that's what makes us djs. Secondly what we do are not trick there is no kino tricks no rapport tricks. This well miss you up if you're thinking you're tricking someone. Thirdly you need to make here realize that you are better and he is not. Don't be an @ss about it be smooth. Say something like he that guy was really cool but his breath stanked. She'll, "really I didn't notice". Then you say,"you can hang around him if you want but I don't want that stink killin me". There simple and with less anger.Last Man Standing said:You have "been" with her for a week and now she is "your" girl? HUH????
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I like how this last part makes even less sense than the rest.thn2 said:Now, I'm a half jerk. At least, I have been lifting weights very hard and now feel like not giving a f*ck. But, there are times when my nice guy side unconscious shows up.
Some advices, please.....