"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I really want to punch onto this JERK's face.

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Have you ever compete with a jerk or another DJ?

Thank you everyone.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You have "been" with her for a week and now she is "your" girl? HUH????

What country are you from?
 

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Last Man Standing said:
You have "been" with her for a week and now she is "your" girl? HUH????
I hate that this is my girl mentality. Anyways you need to calm down a real dj never gets angry we're smart that's what makes us djs. Secondly what we do are not trick there is no kino tricks no rapport tricks. This well miss you up if you're thinking you're tricking someone. Thirdly you need to make here realize that you are better and he is not. Don't be an @ss about it be smooth. Say something like he that guy was really cool but his breath stanked. She'll, "really I didn't notice". Then you say,"you can hang around him if you want but I don't want that stink killin me". There simple and with less anger.
 

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Everytime I walk into a bar I see a jerk dude who takes control of not only the wimpy dudes who like a bunch of pathetic wussy sheep not only allow him to do it but worse still suck up to him, these dudes are very flambouyant try to seduce every hot babe and are never really challenged.
The only way of controling them is to push them arround a bit, you have to know how to fight to do this as they are often more than willing to take you on.
In life you just can't survive unless you can protect yourself, if you can't do this then you better get to the gym, start pumping the weights, punching the punching bag and join a Martial Arts class.
When you have become confident in your own ability to fight then you have to really lay into these types of dudes, because if you don't they will trample all over you.
Violence is the last resort but it is the only way that you can overpower these types of dudes if you don't have a dominant personality like they do yourself.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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thn2 said:
Now, I'm a half jerk. At least, I have been lifting weights very hard and now feel like not giving a f*ck. But, there are times when my nice guy side unconscious shows up.

Some advices, please.....
I like how this last part makes even less sense than the rest. :whistle:
 

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im sorry to say this but this has to be the biggest afc post i have ever read. They should put this in the archives to teach everyone what not to do and what not to think. Fvck me, it was sad reading this. Guy, she isnt "your girl". what the fcvk are u talking about. Only an afc would think that a girl they just met is "your girl". U say that u are now half a nice guy. Only a nice guy would say something like that. Wake the fck up buddy. She is not "your girl", its still anyones game, and right now ur just mad cuz he's outgaming u. Get a hold of ur balls and be a fvcking man. I dont care what this othert guy is doing, u have to do ur own thing to try to win her that doesnt involve this guy. Next time u see her ask her for her number. But by reading ur post i can already tell that even if u get the number u will not be able to hold onto her because u are too nice, too afc, and too jealous over a girl u dont even know.
 
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