“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I really, really need help here (regarding alcohol and a friendship with a girl)

BannedGod

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Ok so I have this friend who is kind of an attention *****... she tries to get as much attention as she can (not by sleeping with people though) and one of her best way is to make the guy think she likes him than when she has what she wants, she just dumps him or whatever.

Now I guess I've fallen into her trap (well I'm not even sure, stupid alcohol). However, I don't love her, never have, never will... I just considered her a really great friend because she was always acting normal with me so I didn't really care about what she did around her. Now the problem is, yesterday, I went to a party and I was quite drunk, so I don't remember much. All I know is she was teasing me A LOT (ie: grabbing my ass all the time, letting me grab hers, hugging me forever, stuff like that), and it eventually got me very confused so I just left and she asked another one of my friend to go talk to me, but thats all I remember. Well this and the conclusion I made with another of my friend while I was walking back home (however I don't remember any of the facts I've based it on): She pretty much didn't care about me and to her, my friendship is pretty much nothing and she used me when I was vulnerable to get what she wanted.
Now I didn't talk to her yet about it, and I don't know how I should act... Should I forget that event since I was drunk (even though all my friends say she was acting like an attention ***** with me). Should I talk to her about it? Let her talk to me about it? Not say **** about it at all?

Any help would be really appreciated
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kings_royalty

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Ignore it, like it never happened. If she brings it up, act like it was no big deal and talk more about the party than what she was doing. If she is an attention wh*re, this will drive her nuts.

Do you have feelings for this girl, or do you just want to bang her? You are looking for something with this girl, but i haven't figured out what yet, fill me in.
 

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Kings_royalty said:
Ignore it, like it never happened. If she brings it up, act like it was no big deal and talk more about the party than what she was doing. If she is an attention wh*re, this will drive her nuts.

Do you have feelings for this girl, or do you just want to bang her? You are looking for something with this girl, but i haven't figured out what yet, fill me in.
None of these, I just consider her to be one of my best friend. I don't have any feelings nor do I want to bang her
 

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Ignore it. You were drunk and have no interest in them. Yet, you are posting a DJ website...
 

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BannedGod said:
None of these, I just consider her to be one of my best friend. I don't have any feelings nor do I want to bang her
If that's true, what's with this...All I know is she was teasing me A LOT . If you had no interest, on any level, you wouldn't of cared what she did, unless of course she sparked your interest.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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